UPDATE 6:01pm Wow, I don't even want to talk to about the negativity my wife put out when she came to pick our son up. Everything that came out of her mouth was passive aggressive. The sad part is that she wasn't doing it directly to me, but at our son. For example, he started saying a funny new word (that his teacher and friends had been fooling around with): "Banana pants!!" So as we buckled him in her car, I said, "See you, Mr. Banana Pants!" He laughs and my wife goes, "Hmm, I don't know about that." I kept the tone positive for our son by adding, "Was Kaiden (our son's friend at daycare) Mr. Banana Shirt?" Our son laughs and says, "No, you ARE, daddy!"
I'm certain she's reacting to my custody filing. Or maybe she's just having another be-mean-to-alamo-and-see-how-he-reacts day.