I'm so ready to be off the emotional rollercoaster.
I was doing really well yesterday and through most of today until about 2 hours ago. The weather is such a trigger for me, and it happened during the kids' recess. I just started seeing all those lines in the chats I found and thinking of what little evidence I did have. And it took everything in me not to lose it right there.
I realized I was rocking back and forth like a mental institution patient.
Should you never contact the OW, ever? Even if it seems like they're willing to talk? Even if H is ok with it?
Do you really think you're going to get the truth from a liar and a cheat OR the kind of woman who would get involved, flirt, etc... with a married man whose wife is pregnant?
I think we all know the answer to that one.
I did contact the ex-ow in my sitch...
But only after she started harassing me via email by sending me articles on what to do if your spouse is in love with someone else, cheating, children and divorce, confidence, weight loss (hilarious considering I'm thin and she's not).
So then I sent her one very charming email that put her in her place and basically called her out on her immature childish behaviour. My husband said that he's sure after reading that e-mail, she felt like the complete loser that she is...
Then we followed up with a Cease and Desist letter. Case closed. Haven't heard from her since.
But opening a dialogue with an ow and expecting the truth? Highly unlikely in my opinion, May.
And she just may say some things that will enrage you. Words you will never be able to forget. Don't give her that power.
