Thank you for the update. Have been wondering how things were going. I pray your BIL continues to improve. Can not imagine having to tell him that his W did not survive.
I have to wonder if this will hit home with your H. That everything can change in a split second.
Glad to hear that he is ignoring the ow. As Snodderly said, he doesn't need this right now (or at any time). Just goes to show how classless ow's can be.
Continued prayers for you all. Please don't forget to take care of yourself, too.