Does your W have interaction with this friend of yours?
Yes, but very little now, at the time he was stopping by almost everyday to hang out with me after work. I do a lot of really cool car projects as a hobby. I explained to him that w and I were having problems and needed some time without him around to work on our marriage.
I was really way to trusting, instead of speaking up when it seemed inappropriate I just let the resentment stew inside and eventually blew a gasket. I would say about 2 weeks later the bomb hit.
I'm 42 and this friend of mine was 26 and looks up to my w and I more like his parents.
I really don't know but she started getting really secretive about her phone which was bothering me. I never snooped on her phone but boy did I want too.
My w was the one that asked to go to marriage counseling and the first few sessions were really hard. It really seemed as though she had made up her mind that I was the problem but we worked through everything and I'm really looking for us to be best friends again, seems as though she didn't feel loved and I felt like I was just an ATM machine for everything. Lots of resentment on both of us. No fighting is still no communication.
You must figure out what makes your w/h tick or your destined to failure.
Shaky
M 42 W 41 S 10 D 7 M 15 Years T 20 Years Divorce busted
