WCW, Thank you for updating us. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers. Your BIL has a long road ahead of him if he can make it through everything.
It always seems like someone is out on the highway doing stupid stuff and the innocent folks are the ones that are either killed or injured. I hope that they are put in jail. I have absolutely no sympathy for such antics.
The ow needs to just stop her nonsense. Your h doesn't need this nonsense right now. He's got a lot of stress he's having to cope w/concerning his brother. I am very glad to see he's ignoring her. I hope he keeps it up.
How are you holding up?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.