your text was perfect. Can you still go on the cruise but without her? I'm serious. Not to punish but to show your kids you can have fun without her. You have a sibling?
Your w is doing a good job of losing custody w/the booze, but if you know she's drinking while she's with the kids
and you leave them with her for long, then you can't suddenly raise the issue when it's time to talk custody. Either she's fit or she's not.
I would, and i mean this NOT punitively but to improve your life and move forward at least consider
leaving her & taking the kids...you're already doing the childcare and housework and paying the bills.
Why let her mismanage the child support or worse,hurt the kids with her self medicated approach to long standing depression?
I'm NOT saying she's going to hurt them. But she is a lot like the women who do...sorry Navy. Truly...
The drinking would be my last straw...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
