Indecision and the affair continues (part 3)

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Part of me is with you kml...I know there is a piece of me that's just being a bit petty/jealous.

H is also pushing my buttons too. From what he's saying now, he would take the kids to OW's city (where we lived for 14 years prior to moving across the country about 2 years ago). He would take them for the MONTH of August. They would would stay with OW. She would take care of our three girls while H works. I'm sure her three kids (similar in age to my oldest) would be around a good chunk of the time.

I don't know her. So I told H that even if I did approve, I would want to meet her before she stayed alone with our kids.

OW lives in a multimillion dollar house and I'm sure it's very "fun". H thinks they'd have a great time. So, am I also insecure about them wanting to live or move there? Yes.

If he was talking about taking them out to dinner with OW some evening in August? I still wouldn't like it...but okay, it's manageable.

I'm also not crazy about H sleeping with OW while the girls are in her house. He sort of agreed that was a bad idea...but then later said it wouldn't be reasonable for them to sleep apart for a month. Keep in mind our girls very frequently like to crawl in bed with us.

He can't take them under the divorce filing...I have to give permission for them to go out of state.

It's just a very stressful, hurtful distraction.