I don't know any other way to go about doing it. I'm sure as time goes on I will release the anger but all of this is too raw in my mind. Talking with an attorney about child support and custody was absolutely insane to me. And I told H how much the attorney said he would owe me for child support and alimony and he said, "does he know that I need to live too?"
I guess he should have thought about that. Not my problem anymore.
You're absolutely right.WAS rarely think about the consequences for their action. BTW, you should not be discussing those points with him. Let your L take care of the legal stuff.
My ex did the same thing, left, came back after a 15 months and then left again. I know where you're speaking from. Take care of yourself and kids first.
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My focus has been on me and my kids and I have been fine with that and honestly have been feeling good.
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But then when he continues to keep begging me to have the kids call him when it's "my time" with them it throws me off. I think for at least right now he needs to respect that my time is my time and his is his.
can you tell me more about this sitch? For me when my WAW called the house, she only wanted to speak to the kids. I had my 4YO answer the phone. Of course she tried to say "mommy wants to tlak to you". She is quite the smart cookie. It time I learned to say to D4 that the call was her time to talk and Daddy will talk to mommy later.
Don't get invovled with him texting you to have the kids call him. Set your boundary once.
Removing yourself from is life may cause his reality to set in. Then again it may not. I'm going in 3 years, and it was until last month that my Ex admitted to a friend that life is not greener on the other side.
You should not be on board sharing your H with any one.
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