As always, I get on this site and start reading. And almost everyday strike gold in reading other peoples comments.
AntoniaB wrote: The bottom line is that it isn't as if you have seen this guy be emotionally available and then LOSE the availability. It has never, ever been there. So he's not suddenly going to just become a different person overnight.
Emotionally unavailable people stay that way because it works for them. They won't change if all the people around them accomodate them.
True and wow! Renee, I hope you and I are both listening.
I am so glad there are so many smart people on here who know how to use their words! I often feel like a child, wanting to express something, but just don't know how to get it out!
Hang in there Renee!
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
