I admire your strength and wisdom and have printed out some of your advice to me to serve as a reminder.
I was piling guilt on myself about my difficulty getting over my sitch when I googled and read that different studies show that the average time to get over a divorce ranges from 1 1/2 to 3 years. We are still in the midst of the "bomb fallout." I think you are doing so well and I hope to follow your path in growth.
All the best.
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13