Thanks for all the thoughts everyone, I will be updating more regularly as I go through the final phases of this chapter of my journey. I'm really hoping this won't turn ugly with my W - the only sticking point is alimony, she verbally agreed to an amount and duration, her L and family have persuaded her she can get more.

I could give in to her demands - but at the end of the day, I wouldn't be true to myself and the life I want to build post D.

M47
W45
D10 (Has CP)
D7
M12 T14
ILYBINILWY 5/1/11
Asked for seperation 5/10/11
Seriously DBing 7/1/11
W admitted to 2 EA's on 11/3/11.
Evidence of PA 11/5/11 - Definite evidence of PA 11/20/11
D - Final 7/11/12