I ignored him until he started to get all huffy about it. I finally told him that I will have them call him but from now on he can't be doing this.
My ex call the kids on my house phone. I never answer it, it's for the kids not me.
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Talking with him makes me so angry and sad and then I take it out on my kids and I'm so sick of it. I had such a great weekend and then he ruins it all just by talking to me. Just by existing... it is ridiculous.
Sorry this is happening to you. Why would you let someone like this effect your life? Are you saying he is responsible for YOUR feelings?
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He told me that he's not trying to hurt me anymore and he will always feel horrible for the way things happened. But since we have kids we still have to communicate. And he may not be feeling what I'm feeling but he is also hurting.
This is classic WAS BS.
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I have no sympathy for him. He will never have an inkling of how much he has hurt me. When he's hurting he just goes and has sex with OW and makes himself feel better. So pathetic
Yes this is sad. The way people cope with the devastation is remarkable. We as LBS are not responsible to "teach" them. They must learn on their own. They can't run away from reality.
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All I want to hear from him is when and where he's going to pick up the kids.
Correct. Communication about the kids is needed.
It sounds like you still have much anger towards him.
Letting go of negative feeling well help you. gr8
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