Separation Helped So Far..

[anyhope]

Honestly, Ive been having some issues with that course I'm taking and if there is anything I read right now it will be my text book. I really prefer to not even think of him but sometimes its not easy. Like lately he is pushing the idea of moving here.. I'm firm on saying no and we even had a fight about it the other day. I feel bad because he always helps me with things a man would do.. Like I got blinds the other day.. I don't own a power drill and even if I did I dont know how to use it.. So who do I call? Him. He comes by (without any tools) and says for the 50th time that he should move here. So I lose it, tell him there is no way in hell, so he gets upset and leaves. I suggested we shouldnt talk at all if he doesnt understand why I dont want to live with him, but now I feel sorry for him (of course) I was thinking to let him stay here to sleep (go anywhere he wants during the day) Not sure how good an idea it would be, I'll see how things progress for him. I just know I dont want him hanging around during the day nor staying longer than 2 weeks. What to do? Feels like he's family regardless of what he's done...