Mr Bond

H moved back home with his parents, just so happens OW lives there also. He has never admitted to OW just that he doesn't love me anymore. We never really settled our finances he just walked away from the house, I haven't decided what I am going to do it is not worth as much as I owe but for right now I am ok. Can't solve all my problems in one day right? I did file but never had him served. I don't know why I just don't feel ready yet. Stupid I know....

The boys and I will be fine without him and at this time am more worried about custody than finances. I know I need to contact the lawyer again to see what I should do but so far my heart just isn't ready.