Originally Posted By: scaredsilly
i don't know. i see pursuing, anger, and expectations in your writings...


I wont't try to deny that but those are all things that came about during the last month or so. Prior to then I had come to terms with the way things were and our relationship as 'friends' was thriving.
I did pursue very briefly but recognised that it would do no good. Db-ing practice once again.
I was angry but not because of the loss of a possible reconcilliation but at the loss of her trust in me as a friend. Again, Db'd my way out of that one.
Expectations..... well I will admit I had some but again experience gained over the last year has taught me not to have any.

Maybe my sitch is a little different to most in as much as we both still do love each other. I KNOW that she still misses me a lot. I KNOW that at this time she doesn't know which way to turn. I KNOW that I will be there to help all I can and do not expect anything other than her friendship in return. That feeling alone creates an immense feeling of inner calm. I KNOW I couldn't have written those statements 9 months ago.

FF999


Me 48
W 49
D19, S17, D14
Together 25yr, Married 22yr
Me checked-out July 10, back Sept 10
W checked out Nov 10
Separated Dec 10
ILYBNILWY 2nd Apr 11
We're finished + D bomb 17th Apr 11

For better, for worse