i'm no expert here, but from what i've read on this forum, there's a lifespan for these OP relationships and it may have to run its course. the vets point to using this time to work on ourselves and GAL. they also say to get back on the "wagon" when you fall off.
(((hugs)))
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing