"So from the discussion I am asking for respect for each other point of view."
You don't ask for someone's respect. They give it to you freely. Show her that you are a man who deserves respect. Don't ask again.
"As for the in law side, father in law is not open. He pushes blame on me. He even go to that extend to say I am like a mad dog."
Did he always feel that way about you? Did you do anything that made him feel that way?
"But that man always want to get involve and make things worst"
He's doing what he feels is right to protect his daughter.
"Do you guys think i have done the correct thing?"
NO. That was a terrible text to send her. You have to understand that you cannot get her to come back by making her feel guilty.
"I am planning to make breakfast for her and bring it to her office in the morning. She know I do not know how to cook so I will be learning how to and cook for her soon. What do you guys think?"
Another terrible idea. DON'T DO IT! You can't get her back by continuing to suck up to her. I think I've mentioned to you that you need to concentrate on your son first. But you haven't done that at all. Calm down and relax.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.