Actually my text message with my spouse is a discussion. So from the discussion I am asking for respect for each other point of view.
As for the in law side, father in law is not open. He pushes blame on me. He even go to that extend to say I am like a mad dog. He himself is a barbarian without he himself noticing it.
One problem with my spouse is she never want to hear people advise. But that man always want to get involve and make things worst
