WAW for 6+ years -- Need Help

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Sometimes, as Michelle puts it, its better to do nothing at all. So, that's what I'm doing. I'm not trying to 'win' her back or 'change' her. It just seems like we're in a fog now moving along in a slow moving fog. Hard to imagine, but I still want to be with her. Maybe not so hard to imagine. I'm just glad I have my classes to keep me company and we'll see what happens. Son graduates this June and then moves out to begin college in late August. We'll see what happens then and will go from there. She nor the OM will have anymore excuses, e.g., I don't won't to hurt our son, etc. He is the last to leave the nest as we have two older dau's (24, 25). We have so many people visiting from May-July, it's going to be a very busy time and that will help as well. I am stronger now then I was in August but this whole process isn't any easier. I applaud so many on here who are 'tougher' than I. Good luck to you and we'll see what kind of 'backbone' I have come August. Need to continue to prepare for talk with W regarding our future at that time. Don't expect to go well or be well received but why continue to live like this? Anyway, I just keep praying and do my best to keep busy.