I think you should try to be a little nicer to him. I know it doesnt make sense but your post seems a little hostile you should try not to show him any hostility.
My H also was showing a lot of weird anger before the bomb. My H would get so pissed at our stupid cats for meowing and waking him up. Its kind of funny now when I think about it.
Its crazy I know but try your best to act like a Stepford wife for now and be happy and loving. Deal with your real feeling in safe enviornments like therapy and here.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13