IMHO, you still shouldn't leave the home. She's unhappy and wants to sort out her feelings, then fine. She says she "feels" smothered by you. The point is she is the one who is making herself feel smothered. YOU'RE not doing anything to make her feel a certain way. She does it to herself.
I think it's hilarious when the WAS says they are unhappy and wants to see if they can "feel" anything for the LBS and the FIRST thing they do is to tell the LBS to leave.
It's like they're saying "I'm unhappy but I don't want to move and inconvenience myself. So you should be leaving because you're the reason I feel that way."
Makes you want to laugh sometimes.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.