"My spouse is someone who don't like people to be to harsh with her. "
No one said you had to be harsh with her. However you cannot let her dictate everything in your life. YOU don't ask for her permission to do something if you feel strongly about it. You don't yell or argue, you just say "this is what I am going to do..." and do it.
Like if you want to take your son out and your in-laws say 'no', then talk to a L to see what your rights are and do it.
"I am working to reconcile my wife not them"
This is true, however she will be getting advice from them and if they have an issue with you, they will go against you. You can talk to them and tell them, "I respect you as the parents of my W and the grandparents of my son. This is what I am going to do ..." "I'm sorry if you feel uncomfortable about this, I do also. Right now I have to do what is right for me and my son."
And that's it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
