That's the thing: my gut tells me he slept with her.
no offense but if this is all, then wth are we telling May "TO DO"?
I'm tempted to say "so what that your GUT tells ou this" when you admit you have major childhood issues with this exact subject matter.
Ever think of that?
And as GM says, even if he had a PA, which HE DENIES and which YOU HAVE NO PROOF Of
he sure doesn't sound like he wants another round of this "Stuff"...
He sounds like he doesn't believe YOU can get past whatever this is,
including the fact that he wigged out during your pregnancy. I mean that is the one thing we are all agreed on; he screwed up while she was pregnant and was a jerk at that time.
And May, if the truth is that you cannot get past that, then move on in your life.
I won't defend you not getting past it, or attack it, but I will call you on it.
You don't know if he had a PA and until recently you thought he had not. Things were looking up. You found OLD stuff that made it sound like a hotter EA (b/c i don't recall the wording I am assuming no actual evidence of intercourse)
and let's face it...
Him having a PA sounds like a better reason for YOU to leave him, than saying 'he wrecked my pregnancy"...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
