Would love some feedback on this email I'm about to send to w. It's in response to all of things I talked about recently.
----------- W To be honest, I don't want to pay $375-500 to do my taxes. I would like to do my own turbo tax as far as I can then share info. I'm not sure how to best do the sharing part of it yet.
As for finances left to get in order, it is:
The Car - Receiving my half of it's worth, me signing over the title to you Co-Signing the check for last year's tax return Splitting the "rainy day" bucket The Car Accident reimbursements. I know you received the deductible. I have placed many calls in regards to getting a new check re-issued from the other insurance company as the names were misspelled. This year tax refund - It might not be necessary if we file RDP - filing separately.
In regards to your phone about getting together for the car stuff, I would appreciate limiting the amount of times we need to get together to finalize things. My goal is to get everything taken care of by June 1st.
Best, Val
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I'm ready as I'll ever be to move forward.. but I'm scared that this email seals the coffin because I'm not explaining why I want these things.. just how I want it.
But I need to let go.. I want to let go.. and I don't want to re-open the wound by seeing/talking to her more than I have to.
I want to heal.. and I don't think I can do until I walk away.
If y'all could help me work through this, I would greatly appreciate it.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
