OK, so she still wants to sell and move to separate homes...
Is this the first house she or you guys have ever sold?
I'm going to pretend I don't find a little humour in the garbage disposal thing... it sounds like she's fixing up the house like she'd LIKE the house... only to sell it... as she was upset that the garbage disposal didn't fit... shouldn't be her problem since the house is to be sold...
Has the house been assessed?
Has the option of you staying there and her moving (with an SA or other agreement to split the asset) been discussed?
