KD....Yeah My w wants us to sell the house and live down the street and raise our kids in separate houses.I have told my w that I don't want that. If and when we sell I will not live close to my w. I have told her that I am hurt and I don't wan to be reminded of my w, I will plan a new life for me and the kids. After she finished the bathroom, I told my w that again I don't want to sell the house. My w was mad for a few weeks and now has started reno of the kitchen. I am agreeing with everything but selling the house and living close to her. I don't want to sell the house. My kids need a stable place to live. My w sent me a text this morning that the house 2 doors down is going for 610,000. I know she sent the text to provoke me. I have not responded. I am my kids rock. I make all decisions with kids in mind first.

The granite counter top went in on Friday. I complimented my w on her style and choice. Cause I was not asked what I wanted my w did ask what I wanted for a sink. My w ended up choosing what she wanted. Our garbage disposal now doesn't fit as the sink is too big. My w was cursing the sink on sunday when she was pulling the slob out of the sink. I try not to laugh but it is quite humorous in what my w chooses and it does not go to her plan and she yells and screams like a teenager. I try to be there for the kids. I try my hardest not to gloat. I do find my self going to another room to have a little chuckle. Sunday I was doing chores in the house with earphones on as I did not want to hear my w. I will do that more. it was alot more peaceful.


H 37
W 38
M 11
T 18
D 4
S 10
Bomb 27/11/2010
Separated still living in the same house 1/1/2012
No D Papers No Separation Papers