I appreciate everyone chiming in. If I didn't I never would have posted my issue.
AD - I think you are right on some level. I didn't disagree with anything KD said about the control issue. It's not that I wasn't ready to hear it, it just wasn't my primary concern at that moment. Lord knows, I know I can't control H's relationship with OW, or SS's soon to be relationship with OW. Half the time, I feel like I don't even control me. LOL I just wanted to some feedback on whether to bring the issue to H or not.
