Thanks again Kaffe, you always put things into perspective and in very eloquent fashion.

I do wish I could do other things to show them love, but because of my W actions my hands are tied at this point. When HS football season starts up I am planning to go to some of the games to support my oldest SS who is in the band. Ironically I had taken him and my other SS to a band competition the night I found out about W affair. Man you are right forgiving is one thing but forgetting another entirely, it is crazy how many things bring that to the forefront of my mind. Still working that piece...

So I am just going to keep on keeping on. 58 days until summer and I will be 20lbs lighter at least by then. Bring it on!!!

Thanks again and have a good week! :-)

me 38
W 30
T 3
M in 05/2010
Separated 08/2011
Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8
I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5
Anxiously waiting on the judge!