SIW...

Saturday morning you fought with your W...

Saturday evening you had sex with your W...

On Sunday she was irritable so you packed more stuff to leave...

I'm guessing you tell your W you want to stay and work on the M...

But you leave when the going gets tough...

I get that you are confused...

Can you see how the above and your actions may be confusing to your W, as well?

She is asking for space...

but asking you to move...

Could it be that the only way she feels that she can get the "space" she needs to sort her thoughts, is with you not around her?

Think maybe that is because she feels you are smothering her when you are around...?