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[Accuray]

Hi NLW,

It sounds like he is very conflicted and his resolve is starting to erode. I would just keep doing what you're doing as it seems you are DB'ing well and its having some impact.

I would try to separate your finances so you have more visibility. Set up separate and shared bank accounts and have him deposit into the shared account a regular amount on a given schedule to cover what he has agreed to cover. With everything else going on, you don't need this murky financial situation. I think you should take over paying the bills that directly impact you with H providing whatever funding he agreed to.

You will find the visibility and control reassuring.

Accuray