I am IN on saving this M, but am thorougly confused on what I can do to save it. Saturday Night we spent some time together and had sex, talked about how stupid it was to fight about going to this dance.
Then on Sunday she was a bear snapping on everyone. She took kids to Target so I packed a few things in my car so that I could sleep at my Grandma's house.
While I was in Milwaukee to get a key to the house she went with the kids to a friend's house. She texted when she would be home so I then went back and made the kid's dinner and hung out with them until they went to bed.
W did text me saying that it was a long day and that I did not have to stay there, but I did. I am hback home now and trying to determine what I am going to do. I certainly do not want the kids to know that I am not here and have no intention of using them as pawns.
At some point today W and I are going to have to talk about this. When we fought Saturday Morning (while the kids were outside) she in no uncertain terms made it clear that one of us had to leave the house. When I told her that since she is the only one that was unhappy then she should go she then went ballistic calling me selfish. At that point I should have walked away instead of being baited to fight more.
So then I leave to look for Apts and she then starts texting and calling. Shen then texts and tells me that she needs time to think about things, but that I am breathing down her neck.
I then suggest that rather than one of us moving and entering into a lease it may be better for us to stay with relatives for a few days so that we could have some time apart to sort things out.
This is a great idea in theory, but W's job requires me to take the kids to school daily and then I have to pick up D6 from day care.
Since my 180's were geared to the kids and helping with the house I do not want to stop doing them.
She likes my 180's but then is mad that it took her to this point to get me to change. To that I stated other than telling me these things when you wanted a divorce, when have we talked about these things? To her recollection it has been at least over a year.
When we are together I will do my best DB'ing to not show her any emotions. Be civil and polite, but not get sucked in to her emotions.
