I said I'd be willing to go with her sometimes and she liked the idea. I don't think SDA is my thing though. Also, the SDA church I checked out isn't hers, it's just one she mentioned to me that she'd been to a couple of times. They have early morning services, which her church doesn't. So I mentioned I'd be glad to go with her sometimes and she said she'd like that. As far as the move, she's moving cuz they are so in my mind they should give her a little time to pack...considering she works 73 hours per week already. I'm biased though lol.. Hey, tonight was our 3 month anniversary! She didn't remember but I did lol. We had our first coffee date on January 22. Tonight we went to an Italian Restaurant and had a nice dinner. I'd wanted to take her to a different restaurant but when we got there it was closed. In the car on the way she apologized to me because when I phoned this afternoon she had forgotten that I had to pick up the kids in the evening. She'd asked me to pick her up at 4:30 pm after I'd suggested I drop over about 3:30 pm. She started by saying "Whatis, I want to say something to you" and then said "I want to apologize. I know you wanted more time together and I forgot about you having to pickup the girls. I could have finished what I was doing later in the evening. I'm sorry" I said that I was OK with her suggesting 4:30 pm but I said "It's so sweet that you would even think to say that. Thank you" Later I picked up the girls at their Mom's and Voldy was in one of her fine moods. The girls warned me "Mommy's mad". Apparently she got into it with D18 about university. She also got a few shots in about yours truly, saying I don't spend enough time with the girls, I don't do anything regarding D 18's university blah blah blah "maybe I should just do nothing like your father" Ah, I can feel the love. She handed me a pile of university stuff and said "I expect you to read this and report to me on what you have read" I just burst out laughing and walked away. hey, you want me to read something then just say "could you please read these, I don't have time and we'll discuss it later" She's a gem. So it would also seem she still has herself all worked up about SDA Lady. When she says that I'm not spending enough time with the girls, that's what it means. I will ignore this evenings display of idiocy, my girls do. But if she continues to bad mouth me in front of my kids she'll be hearing from me. To say I do nothing is a huge joke. Last week, on her week with the kids I drove them to appointments on four evenings. The gratitude is overwhelming. Oh well, she is what she is. So that's my day.
