I have read your posts & thread and I can see your husband is a fool. You need to believe that he is a fool and that Paige40 Rocks!!

Its hard for him to see that right now cause OW is having sex with him (to put it bluntly).

You need to keep on working on you! Spend money on yourself. New clothes, new hair style etc. Take some classes, train for a race, learn an instrument.

Your H will find out you are doing these things through your kids.

He knows that leaving his kids and moving across the pond is being a terrible dad so he needs to blame you. Dont give him any fuel.

You cant control him but you can make him look like an idiot.

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13