That does sux... Living together is hard when you are apart some of the most tension filled days were with H at home after he dropped the bomb. I was devasted when he moved out but it really felt better after awhile. It was so hard to come home when I was walking on eggshells. I was hoping when he moved out he would miss me but he was too caught up with OW.

Why on earth does he want you to buy side by side condos?? has he lost his mind??

He leaves every weekend?? When do you get a weekend off?? I say you make a plan and you go away for a weekend. Let him stay with the kids and wonder where you are.

I know that feeling too, I don't want the man that my H is now. I want the one I remember. The one I miss. This man is a stranger.