I have been working hard on letting go of my resentments toward my H and I feel like I have done a good job of letting go of most of them. None of them have been resolved but I realized that by holding onto the anger and resentments I was holding onto from the past was just hurting me. He wasn't bothered that I was angry and resentful it was only affecting me. Not saying I don't have moments of anger now but I am trying to push them away and remind myself that H is the one losing out that I am the one with our beautiful boys and I am not missing 1 second of their lives like he is.