You mention a set of 180s which relate to yourself: weight loss, haircuts, less coffee etc
Have you tried any behaviour 180s i.e. if you were controlling before or passive/aggressive...have you changed your nagging? stopped criticising....
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16