WHG, if you've read any of my previous posts, you will see that I often say I only control me. A hard thing to do, but something I work on alot. I was not trying to control my H or OW. I just did not want my SS to hear from OW that the dad he idolizes is cheating on his Stepmother. That is something that should be told by his dad, which H and I have discussed.
I actually called H and told him about the post. He seemed genuinely surprised. I suggested to him that if OW was going to be chatting with SS, we should probably talk to him first (which H completely ignored). I told him I did not want SS upset and distracted from all of his senior stuff. H said he would talk to SS to see what he post was about ( Note: H didn't say he was going to talk to OW. CRAZY!). Last night the post was gone.
Btw - SS's mom would have also be inquiring about who this 30-something woman who wanted to "chat" with her 19-year old son who is still in high school.
