Great job on the 180s and GAL! I'm trying a lot of new things too. If things weren't so awful this would be a lot of fun. (!)
So many similarities in our situations (struggle with tendency to be critical/analytical, flip of stereotypical gender roles). H doesn't believe I'm capable of change either (plus he's depressed which doesn't help). I don't know what's going to happen but I'm trying to focus on GAL right now too.