In the case of my H he is looking for an escape. Something to make him happy. She is needy and H is codependent. He even paid for her car registration which infuriates me. She is playing the poor me single mom card and he is playing the Hero who has been wronged by his hostile wife card. He played the rescuer card with me when we first met but things quickly turned and I discovered that I was the one rescuing him not vice versa.
Reality will set in for both our H's. I just hope there isn't too much damage done before that happens.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
