Thanks it helps not to be alone. I don't understand how your h and mine can choose another woman's kids over their own? It makes no sense to me.

I am sorry I feel so bad for you and your son that is so not fair to your S. My H hasn't even admitted an OW it is all my fault has nothing to do with anyone else... yeah right...

I feel like I take 2 steps forward and 3 back. I wish I could figure out how to just keep going forward