IB, I agree with KML and Bea. Two years is an extremely short period of time and your xh may not express remorse for a very long time, if ever. Some won't do it until they are at death's door. My xh has been nuts since approximately 1997 and I haven't heard any remorse in the way he ripped through my life. I'm not holding my breath that he ever will. Some of these people are just too proud to admit that they screwed up and others fear that we will reject their apologies, others figure it's been such a long time and we have moved on that in their minds it is "what's the use", etc.
The best thing that you can do is live your life to the fullest and if your xh should ever want to speak to you about it, that is when you can make the decision as to whether or not you want to hear what he has to say.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
