Wendy, How is it the ow can see your sister's FB page? Was she friended there? If not, your sister needs to "unfriend" her. Poking the enemy isn't a good thing and because the ow is so nutty, you don't know what she'll do next.
I'm right there w/Bea...how can you concentrate having an oral conversation w/someone and texting his wife at the same time? She is way out there and I don't trust her one bit. There may come a time that you have to file a restraining order to get her to stop the nonsense on the phone and/or notify the phone service so that they do something about her.
I hope things settle down for you, but I seriously doubt that the ow will let the dust settle for very long. Please be careful.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
