I seriously think our Hs read the same script or book!!
What is wrong with them?!?!? I also said to my H if he ever cheated I would be out the door..and he did it and I'm still here partly.
I agree with you YC that when I'm not around him it is more like I want to succeed at our M. However, when we did have a positive interaction at DB 2x and at parts on our 1 date, it's about wanting to get those AMAZING feelings back!
W,H--I also know how you feel about him coming clean. Bottom line, cheaters are liars and for now, we'll never really know what the truth is. The sad thing is--they are lying to themselves to!!! That can't feel good and be true happiness.
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July