I wondered how you two were doing. Did you go to Retrovaille?
Thank you, 25. I also hear your words in my ear often, "Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?" Truthfully, I'd like to be both but I'm going with happy.
And yes, we did attend Retrovaille, as well as all the post sessions which were less than a 10 minute drive from our house. Hello, Universe! We have been too busy to attend the monthly potlucks (date night for us) but we have plans to attend in the future as it would be wonderful to see the couples and presenters from our weekend again. I think I did post on our Retrovaille experience sometime last year....not entirely sure though.
Anyway, May, I didn't think my H would ever attend Retrovaille in a million years. And that lovely little speech he gave me about expressing my anger, which I admit was indeed wonderful, was probably not something I would have heard last year, or even 5 months ago. It took him a while to get there and many conversations. Retrovaille indeed helped him get "it" a little more. Our homework from Retro helped too, as well as information from the numerous books we ordered on infidelity. More on that later, but I do recall sending my H a post on Retrovaille that 25 wrote. I also told him a bit about her and her H and what they went through. He was inspired. He actually signed us up for Retrovaille and handled all the arrangements. I would have fallen over if someone would have told me he would have done that last year.
