Yes, you are correct, 25. The ow in my sitch was indeed nuts.
I'm not sure if I ever updated about this but she began emailing me articles on divorce and helping children through divorce about 2 months after the A was exposed. As well as articles on how to tell whether your spouse is in love with someone else or cheating on you. Oh, and she also signed me up for numerous offensive websites using my real name and my children's names. Sick, self-centered and truly dangerous. H's eyes were open to her true character before D-day as the cracks were already showing. D-day really blew the lid off the crazy pot though.
Anyway, I took that message from Michele as referring to family members and friends and that telling them about your spouse's A would hurt the chances of reconciling. I have never told a single family member or friend. I debated telling my parents because I know they would be supportive but they would be terribly hurt and disappointed so I opted not to.
