P.S. I agree with 25, but think about what you want to see happen - find out more? Knowing he may not admit? Leave the M?
Either way is fine with me! Meaning, I don't have an agenda. If you think you should leave the M, I'm all for it. You need to trust you -
I don't think DBing is about staying and pretending ...
You got a big gut thing going on here. Get still, May. Ask yourself what you think really happened? You probably already know. Even if your H isn't going to be honest. It may not be the answer you think - or it might. But listen to your own wisdom.
And then figure out what baby step you need to take next.
I think doing little things is going to help address the anger, empower you, and help you process your emotions.