May, don't twist his arm. There is a huge power imbalance in your R.
You need to take your power back and he needs to be okay with vulnerability.
Sorry. I'm just gonna say it!
Sorry, I meant to be kinda smarta$$ with that (although, truly, I'd like to go). Clearly he's gonna do what he wants to do. And at this moment, what he wants is not to bend over backwards to make me happy.
