You guys are giving May some great advice. Invaluable.
I think there's a big piece that's just not getting acknowledged here.
You'll glossed over it last time too.
And it came back around.
May needs to know what her husband did or didn't do. She has no idea if he had a PA. It's going to burn her up inside.
He's not owning it.
That's huge. That's a HUGE piece of this.
Endeavor - what you have is HUGE and I just don't think May's got that. Her H is not saying "go ahead, sweetie, be angry." That's Transparency that May just does not have with her H. And so how can she a, move on b, let go c, forgive when she doesn't even know what she's dealing with and it's bothering her and she tries to push it aside but it
KEEPS COMING BACK
and not only does she not have that right now, she doesn't have
acknowledgement or remorse from her H
She can give a lot of this to herself - peace, etc. But I just don't see her POOF - letting this go and moving on. It's nice, in theory, it ain't happening.
May, tell me where I'm wrong here.
100% correct on that. A lot of this would be better if he would just come clean and let me be at peace. At one point he had taken responsibility, but that was when I did not know more of the truth. Now that I know more of the truth, all of the sudden it's not his fault anymore. And I'm not ok with that.
