so Purg, can you try to have a sense of humor about it? It's obvious your h "needs" to find a problem with you Or he can't justify leaving the mother of his children. You under estimate the value of this...
Remember Keep goings' h wanted to measure crap like how much food his w ate vs how much the kids ate? I think he wanted to deduct HER costs so he didn't have to cover HER at all....so We suggested she deduct # of squares of TP she used too, and should never be able to use a wipe for HER hands, just the baby's butt...
I opened at The Laugh Factory in '06 and I dedicated my set to my "stbxh" b/c I thought for sure we were done. And I wanted to laugh about it.
(Although h won't ever see that tape and I won't post it on youtube, I can tell you that it went over well)
A sense of humor helps a lot of people channel their anger in a way that helps us get past some of the pain.
Besides, the craziness IS funny, dang it!
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