I understand what you are saying wishing. It's just horrible when they switch off their romance and redirect it elsewhere. To me, it's best not to be around that. It actually makes me feel worse than I already feel - but they don't see it that way.
And, what's with the friends thing. My H said exactly the same thing. It's like they let you go but don't truly let you go and live your life to the full. This is what has been bothering me about my sitch. It's like why? Am I some sort of back up plan, just in case? Loads of good that does my self-esteem.
It's my battle. I know it's not terribly DB of me, but I have this same dilemma.
Anyone see the 1980's film, Heart Burn?
So, I hear you and offer support. If I ever crack this nut, I'll let you know.
